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Some personal thoughts for Christians beyond HE

Home education in NZ and the Christian faith

a personal statement by Phil Astley

Introduction

I hope this site is as open and helpful to all home educators as possible. The aim is to encourage home educators from all walks of life - just as I have been helped and enriched by home educators with diverse views and experiences.

After running this site for several years, and nearly a decade and a half of home educating, I added this page to express some personal insights which have only recently become clear (sort of).

In no way do I want to alienate many of our wonderful friends and colleagues who do not follow our Lord Jesus. This is a public web site so feel free to read on - but the page title and topic heading should give all readers fair warning that, on this one page, you will encounter content which deals with the Christian faith.

Just as our home educating offended a significant number of our Christian friends, so too some of what I say here might be hard for some Christians to hear. I simply ask that you seriously weigh up what I say, and let it lie for a while. I have learned with home education that what seems crazy may actually became relevant later. Perhaps the same will apply here.

So with that introduction:

Discipleship and home education

When I first started home educating, I did not specifically think about it as a "Christian" thing to do. As a Christian I simply try to follow God - which if course is easier said than done. In this area, I didn't try for example, to teach adding by using say angels instead of apples, etc. We just went on with our lives as normally as any home educator can. There was no specific "Christian" curriculum, just as there was no specific "History" (or any other) curriculum. Truth is truth.

As I progressed, I discovered that home education does indeed have many many advantages for the spiritual development and discipling of children. Although this wasn't why I started, I can certainly see benefits now. Probably the most important of these is the reduction in peer pressure, which in turn helps improve the quality of relationship between children and parents. (Of course there will still be challenges - but on a totally different scale.)

I can see now the command in Deuteronomy to talk about God's commands as we go through life is indeed a very sound and practical model for raising children. It should be applied both to the sort of knowledge dealt with in our schools, and also in our Sunday Schools. If we decide not to delegate the former to others, how much more important is it not to delegate the latter?

There really is a big difference

When I first started my home educating journey, I did not regard home education as basically much different from school - it was more like an alternative. School was fine - after all, I went through it and came out OK (although some would question that).

During my journey, I discovered that Ivan Illich, John Holt and many others have been saying this over the last half-century - and since school as we know it is only 200 or so years old, that is a very long time. In fact other writers up to a century ago proposed alternative models, without necessarily criticising schools as directly.

By coupling all of that research with my own experience of both school and home learning, I cannot help but conclude that school is fundamentally flawed, and no amount of playing with curricula, methods, etc. will ever make it work effectively. My sad conclusion is that very few schooled children will fulfill their potential because of school - and many will suffer needlessly because of it.

The parallels of school with church

Each of us must respond to God's call - not to human ideas. For the majority of Christian home educators who are happy in their church situation, I encourage you to really go for it - to be as fruitful as you can - because the time is short, the harvest is plentiful and the labourers are few. Currently we're not even keeping up with population growth - we need 30, 60 and 100 times harvest - not just a few percentage point gains. Don't settle for less.

However, in the last couple of years or so I have begun to see a bigger picture. I am involved with one of several developing networks in New Zealand. The difference between these and traditional house churches is that they are not so much meeting in a house, as learning to explore a very different way of following Jesus. (Not that there is one way - far from it.) It is also very focused on planting more churches.

Over Queen's Birthday weekend (2004) several networks got together for a conference. The guest speaker was Wolfgang Simson - who works with DAWN and who wrote "Houses that change the world". It was truly inspirational and scarily challenging. (I don't think anybody agreed with everything he said - not even the organisers - and all of us were taken outside of our comfort zone.) For me the most interesting part was his description of a typical journey out of traditional church into house church - because he described my journey.

This is only a very brief summary. We start at -2, with little awareness of problems with traditional church structures, and we're happy there. (As a natural cynic I wonder if I have ever been there.) From there we move to -1, where we can see problems, and look forward to God doing a new thing and fixing them at some undefined time. At ground 0 we are out of the traditional church - and in fact dying to it. From +1 we can see the "promised land" but aren't yet there. It is a place where having got us out of the traditional church, God has to get the traditional church out of us. At +2 we are functioning like the church in Acts. Just as the age of miracles is definitely not over, so the age of the New Testament church is not over.

During this presentation, Wolfgang said it generally takes up to a month of detox for every year spent in a traditional church structure. I was amazed to hear him say exactly the same thing about church that we say about school! (And as there were several home educators at this conference, we exchanged knowing looks.)

The following year we were blessed to have friends of Wolfgang - a British couple who live in Texas - and are leaders in the new home church in the USA. The best thing I got from them was chance to learn from their mistakes - such a refreshing change from the many teachers I've heard who've never made any mistakes.

Conclusion

I've been doing a lot of thinking and meditating on what this means. The answer I have arrived at is so simplistic it's almost not worth saying - yet it seems there is something vital here that God is trying to say to the church. God values small things, and in society, he particularly values families or households as the basic unit of society. Man invents great systems, but he cannot improve on God's design. We build organisations - God builds organisms. We need to work to support the family - which is an essential part of God's plan. No wonder it is under such attack.

Two practical things that we can support come to mind. One is the Grapevine magazine as it attempts to support families around New Zealand. The other is politicians who do support what we call traditional family values. They are up against a pretty strong campaign to destroy the family. I'm sure their are others (perhaps Plunket, Parents Centre, etc.) but I don't know enough about these.

If you don't identify with any of this, please stay focused on doing what you can where you are. Be fruitful and keep running towards the goal. But if now or at some time in the future you are interested in finding out more, e-mail me, read Wolfgang's book, or search the Internet. You might find more "weirdos" than you think.

Thanks for reading this - I fear I've not done the subject justice. Also coming back two years after I wrote this, I understand some things quite differently - it's quite a journey. This is why I'm happy to answer any e-mails privately. However, you might also want to join a Kiwi Yahoo group to hear others on this topic. check out everyhomeachurch

Phil Astley

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